Pleasure

Once, I have received a surprise call from one of my friends. He was asking me how to pleasure a woman. Well, I do not want let him down so I did give him a lengthy lecture but I am not sure whether he made it or not. He did not come back to me. Oh well, we will see about it then.

The golden rule of thumb is that if you are thinking of making up, it is always best to set out a surprise or a mood, as people always say before any advances are possible. For example, if you are thinking of a good night out just be with your other half, have some nice reasonably priced dinner out side; while having a meal, if you are a woman, remove your working shoe and start moving from his ankle up to his upper knee...Slowly...Don't forget to give him the look or the body language that tonight is his lucky night! You could also have a drink or two but when you drink, look at him with your mouth open slightly and try to wet your lips. When you do that, look at him in a way that it is like 'Oh baby, do you want me tonight?'

Always look at his reaction. He might be tired. Surprise him by giving him a gift. It does not need to be expensive, it could be made by yourself! The gift is merely an idea, that is to see how he is going to react. After that, have fun when you both hit home!!!

If you are a male and both of you are having a meal at a restaurant or even a small coffee shop, you can do the same to your other half. It does not matter. I feel that you will be surprised to see her reaction. Good luck to you!!!

In pleasuring a woman, it is always important to preheat the oven. Why? That is to spice up the turkey before anything is going to be done! Woman will always feel loved and they like to be touched gently. Never be rough on a woman. They would always like to be kissed gently. Roll your hands all over her body and kiss her whole bod without focusing on any parts of her body. This is very important. Don't just do it for the fun of it but always look at her reaction. She might have an orgasm or two out of foreplay!!! You both can get out of your clothes but remember to start slow. The rule of thumb is to start off slowly and then gain momentum. Kissing and touching her body is going to pleasure her lots. You might caress her lips, her shoulder, breasts and the nipple. When you are going over the nipples, please take one at a time. It will be good!

Look at her reaction. She might not like you to do something but always try to ask her whether she likes it when you touch her here and there, the tone of the touch and also how much pressure she would like you to put on her. These are the basic things which you might want to do. There is no harm in understanding what a woman wants!!!

Well, after all that touching and kissing, you might want to focus a lot on her sexual parts. Yes, we should start off with the nipples. Never go too fast at first. What is important is to take your time to do it. Change nipples and never stop using your fingers to touch her body all over. The next thing you would feel is that both of her nipples are pretty hard... You can continue kissing her body, down to the naval button and the surroundings of her opening down there. You might see that she is already wet. Use your tongue and go slow, always focus on the clitoris. That is the most important thing. Make sure the clitoris is always wet. You don't want to have a dry clitoris. It will hurt her. Just go slow and then pick up the paces. Never stop doing it, alright? Don't be rough. Be gentle but pick up the paces. You might want to insert a finger which you perform oral sex on her. That is pretty good, you know? Some woman like it very much. Two stimulations. It is quite rewarding. Make sure you do not have long finger nails. Always try to cut short your finger nails, alright?

Once it is time (the woman may just say, 'I want you inside me, now!' Wow...then sexual intercourse can begin. Well, I am going to continue later, ok?

In pleasuring a man, it is quite simple, you would just need to make sure that the shaft is always wet and pull up and down the penis, make sure you apply more pressure on the head of the penis but make sure it is wet and not dry. You might find that the man will be so turn on that he will cum inside your mouth. The key to a good oral sex on a man is that you must continue putting the penis inside your mouth and use your hand to push it up and pull it down. That will excite him and as I have stated earlier, he might just cum inside your mouth! I am sure that he will be very satisfied.

Sexual Intercourse should be fun and exciting and not a hurdle at all. Some woman do fake their orgasm, just to make sure that the men will cum inside her. Well, I think it is very important for both woman and man is that the man would have to go slow while penetrating the woman. You can only hurt a woman too much if you 'force' your way in. Oh yes, always play save, use a rubber if you require one. Never think that a rubber is insignificant. Wrong, it is really important that you have this knowledge. Always be safe. Coming back to the topic, always go slow first... Once you feel that the woman's vagina wall is relax, the passage will be quite rewarding. The man should be careful and be a little bit sensitive. After a while, I think it is safe to pick up the pace.

Another thing to look out is that always try different positions to suit the both of you. Never just get stuck to one position. It is not good. The man will be good to say sweet nothing to the woman while the woman is enjoying his thrust. There are so many different positions to go for. You have the missionary position, the woman on top, the spoon, 69 position, the lotus position and so on. The positions are huge!!! Just try it, alright?

Good luck!!!

If you have any questions, please feel free to ask!!! I am not an expert but I will try to solve some problems over here...