Relationships (updated on 09/10/2008)

Some times, it is really difficult to justify why a person would want to take a different step to what we have thought or why a person has different thinking to us when it comes to relationships. I do feel sad for those people who has not been able to find love. Never mind about it. What is important is that there are many people out there who are looking for love and it is just a matter of time before you find them!!!

Very often, a female would find it very difficult when a man says that he is not looking for any commitment because he has so much things to do any the last thing he wants will be a ring on his third finger. I can understand why. It is quite common nowdays because there are many guys think that they need to be successful before they can settle down.

Well, it really depends.

There are guys who are really into a relationship and given the time, he will give in. As you can believe that there are many males out there who are pretty scared of commitment. They want the freedom to roam around instead. Oh well, I think it comes to a point where by they need to choose and it is crunch time then, baby!!!

I think what will help is that time should be given to male and not just male but also the female before any matter is to be resolved. Both the male and female should not rush into a legal binding commitment unless they mean it. This is because we do not want people to decide later that they are incompatible and then decide to divorce after putting too much effort in the relationship.

Well, if you fall into that category, you both just need more time, ok? If you are a male, don't let your lady wait too long, ok? For the female, just give your man some time and hopefully he will proceed with the long time commitment - marriage. I am, by no mean, a marriage counsellor but I will do my best to help, ok?

If you fall into the category of those people who does not like to have commitment, female, don't force your guy as he has made up his mind. Don't guess that he will change it for you. If he can do it, good for you but if he does not, you have two choices. You can either stick with the original idea or find someone else. For the guy, think about your lady, man! Where is it going to lead to?
If you need help, just pop a message into my e-mail at s903sh05@yahoo.co.uk and I will try to help you out. Good luck guys!!!